You know this person. They have an answer for everything. A reason for every missed deadline. A context for every performance concern. A circumstance that explains away every expectation that was not met. And here is the complicated part: sometimes the reasons are real. Life happens. Teaching is hard. Classrooms are complex. Not every missed…
The first 90 days of a principal’s tenure at a new school are not a honeymoon period. They are a data-gathering period — for you and for every person in that building. Your staff is not waiting to see what you do. They are watching what you do not do. What you let slide. What…
They are not the same thing. And the difference between them matters more to the health of your school than almost any other distinction in leadership. Respect, in the context of school leadership, is often the result of authority and competence. People respect the principal who runs tight meetings, who knows the data, who makes…
Emotional labor is a term coined by sociologist Arlie Hochschild to describe the management of feeling to fulfill the emotional requirements of a job. Flight attendants were her original research population. Service workers, nurses, therapists — these are the roles most commonly studied. Nobody studies principals. But if they did, the findings would be staggering….
The people in your building have been disappointed before. They have watched a leader come in with language about transformation and leave three years later having transformed nothing except their own career trajectory. They have been told that things were going to be different. They have believed it and been wrong. Some of them are…
I want to tell you about the gap. The one between what the educational leadership program gives you and what the principalship actually requires. It is not a small gap. It is not a gap that better professors or updated curricula would close. It is an intentional gap. And understanding why it exists is the…
Most conversations about legacy in school leadership are quietly, subtly about the principal. The leader who built the program. The principal who turned it around. The name attached to the initiative that outlasted the tenure. Legacy, in the way it is typically talked about, is a monument to a person. That kind of legacy is…
Most principals do not wake up in the morning and consciously decide to lead from fear. Fear-based leadership does not announce itself. It arrives gradually, in the accumulation of small decisions made under pressure — decisions that, taken one at a time, seem reasonable, but that collectively add up to a leadership posture organized around…
The leadership literature has spent years talking about authentic leadership as if it were primarily about being warm and relatable — sharing enough personal stories to seem human, expressing enough vulnerability to seem approachable. That version of authenticity is manageable. It is strategic. And it is not what I mean. Leading with your whole self…